Hello, I’m Addie Gengenbach, the death doula behind Moonlit Moth Doula Services.

My Journey

I’ve always been curious about death, transitions, and the mysteries of the afterlife. One of my earliest memories is a conversation with my mom about what happens after we die. I was seven years old and full of questions that I’ve been exploring ever since.

I grew up spending time in nursing homes and volunteering with people experiencing homelessness, guided by my compassionate mother who taught me to listen deeply, hold space without judgment, and honor each person’s story. Legacy work has also been a part of my life from a young age. I loved capturing the stories of my elders, interviewing my parents and grandparents, and learning from my great aunt, who spent over 40 years tracing our family’s genealogy. These experiences, along with my own encounters with grief, shaped my path toward walking alongside others during some of life’s most tender and difficult moments.

Work & Philosophy

As a death doula and grief worker, I offer presence, companionship, and planning support for those nearing the end of life and for their loved ones. I believe death is both ordinary and extraordinary. It’s an inevitable part of life and a sacred passage filled with meaning. To me, dying is not only an ending but also a profound transformation, a kind of birth into something new.

I also recognize that the culture of death and dying in America often falls short of what people deserve. Death itself, as a topic, is hidden and taboo for many. Too often, families face this transition without enough compassion or support. My work is part of a larger movement to change that by creating spaces where people can die with dignity, comfort, and loving attention, and where their loved ones are supported in navigating the immense changes that follow.